“I’d rather lose the balls than points,” Toye said. andidate, openly endorsing him on 27 October at another Pittsburgh rally where he presented Obama with a Steelers jersey. Naturally it’s easier to be generous in victory than defeat, but he seemed to mean it, and the pair’. s in the rear of the building when he became engaged in a verbal altercation with a 25-year-old male, whose name is also being withheld.